Conversation between husband and wife, Jaswant and Jasmit, about their 34-year arranged marriage.
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Kaur Phull, Jasmit, 1951- (female, biomedical scientist), Singh Phull, Jaswant, 1948- (male, doctor)
Married for 34 years and living in the UK for 32, Jaswant and Jasmit talk about the strength their arranged marriage gives them to be with someone that their parents had found for them. They also discuss moving to the UK, difficulties they faced after life in India and why an arranged marriage worked for them. The focus of the piece is their love for one another, the roles they play in their marriage, family values, how Jaswant is the worker and Jasmit is the glue of the family. Jaswant admits that without her he couldn’t even get dressed in the morning, she claims that he doesn’t even know what size underpants he wears. They talk a lot about their children and how the traditions of an arranged marriage have not continued within their own family. Together they remember the first time they met through their parents and how nervous they were and their first-hand experience of sexual values in the UK back in the 1970’s.
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